Understanding and Dealing with Tantrums

Toddlers throw tantrums because they have an intense desire to do things, but their mental and motor skills have developed more quickly than their ability to communicate. Because they don’t quite yet have the ability to express frustration, they do so by throwing a tantrum.  Tantrums are a part of normal child development.  However, there are ways for which parents can learn how prevent them.

The two types are: manipulative tantrums and frustration tantrums. Frustration tantrums, on the other hand, require empathy. Take these emotional outbursts as an opportunity to bond with your child. Offer a helping hand, a comforting “it’s okay.” Help him out where he feels frustrated at not being able to accomplish a task. Encourage your child to put words to their feelings.

Never punish or engage your child during a tantrum.  The more control you try to take, the more resistant your child will be.  Respect and guidance will go a long way with your temper tantrum prevention efforts.

To learn more about the steps on how to prevent and deal with tantrums, read Kimberley’s book www.TheGoToMomsGuide.com.